Shirley Trusnik

Shirley Trusnik

March 31, 1936 - July 10, 2022

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Shirley Trusnik was born on March 31, 1936 and passed away on July 10 at the age of 86. Shirley was born on the west side of Indianapolis and attended Holy Trinity grade school, St. Mary Academy and was a graduate of Marion University. Shirley met Mac Trusnik at a CYO event and married him November 1957. They bought a house in Speedway, Indiana and became members of St. Christopher church and school where their family still resides. When her house became too small for her growing family, she added rooms instead of moving because she really liked her neighbors; relationships that exist today. Shirley lived a simple life and cherished her faith, family and many, many friends. She first was a teacher at St. Lawrence School then stayed at home to raise her sister Carol and her four children. She went to classes at night to complete her college degree. When the kids were in high school, she went to work at the Indianapolis Motor Speedway Ticket Office where she retired after 25 years. Shirley and Mac had many social circles. They bowled in the St. Christopher bowling league, worked Friday night bingo and oversaw fish cutting and carryout at the festival for many years. The kids had to pitch in as well; we thawed fish, battered fish and filled the tartar sauce cups. Our family was part of a group of 7 families from Holy Trinity that picnicked each year. A softball game was the main event; kids versus the adults. With various neighbors, we camped, attended ball games, visited state parks and went to Tippecanoe River. We visited family in the summer and had many family reunions on both sides. When she started working at the track, our parents were part of a group that celebrated birthdays and traveled to races. When she retired from the track, she had a new group that met monthly for lunch. Shirley treasured her life-long friends. She had weekly lunches with women from her kindergarten class; she thought that was amazing. She belonged to a Card Club (euchre) comprised of 8 women that lasted 50+ years. These eight women raised 44 children between them. Not sure how they found time to play cards but am sure they were delighted to leave their homes and children to visit with each other. Shirley was a member of the Slovenian National Home and KSKJ. Shirley had an inner kindness that was always present. Her love and appreciation of family and friends did not need to be spoken in words, it was just there. She will be missed by her many nieces, nephews and cousins. Mac was once asked, “What is your proudest moment” and he replied “Marrying my wife.” Shirley is survived by her daughters Anna Allen (Michael), Natalie Hammer (Russ), Nancy Trusnik and Carol Sue Zeronik Denton (Michael) who joined the family at age five. She was “Gma” to eight grandchildren: Tim, Allison, Matthew, Michael, Erin, Ben, Jake and Clayton. She was “Great Gma” to four great-grandchildren: Carter, Adeline, Evelyn and Cole. Shirley was preceded in death by her parents Tony and Ann Zeronik, Mac her husband of 62 years and son Timothy (1963-2008). She is survived by her brother Mark Zeronik (Pat), and her sisters Patty Martin and Carol Denton (Michael). There is a saying that life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the number of moments that take our breath away. Thank you, Mom for taking our breath away. Shirley's funeral mass will be at St. Christopher Catholic Church 5301 W. 16th Street, Indianapolis IN on July 18, 2022 at 10:00am. Visitation will be at Stevens Mortuary on Sunday, July 17 from 4:00-8:00pm. If desired, a remembrance donation may be made to Easterseals Crossroads who were instrumental in helping Tim or St. Christopher CYO Program.

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Linda Schubert
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Shirley was my supervisor. She was always helpful, kind, calm, and upbeat. She was very organized. I remember “tidy time” and “coffee time” She will definitely be missed by all that knew her. My sympathy and condolences to her wonderful family.
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Janice Cooper Davis
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I was a neighbor and have known Shirley for 64 years. Her sister Carol and I were best friends growing up and I spent many days and nights at the Trusnik’s. Shirley was always kind to me and treated me like one of her own. I was not crazy about the breakfast we had after spending the night there. Shirley gave us cereal with “warm” milk. Ugh! Ha ha! I remember when all of the kids were born and watched them grow up. Shirley and Mac became good friends of my parents and she worked with my mother at the track. I know Shirley is enjoying a huge reunion in heaven with Mac, Tim and the rest of her family and friends. Janice Cooper Davis
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Billy Nester
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Mrs. Trusnik was a very kind woman. She and her family, always worked hard at the St. Christopher festival. She raised a very special family. She will definitely be missed. Our Prayers will be with the Trusnik family. Billy and Reda Nester
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Paula Logan Schultz
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When I was a kid, my Aunt Shirley would periodically invite me to their home for a week or so during the summers. Her youngest sister, Carol, who is 2 years older than me, lived with them too and it was always fun for us to hang out. My Aunt included me in several of their family activities – like going to the circus. Anyway, one day during one of those summer visits, Shirley was going to the grocery and told us kids that we had to stay home and keep out of trouble. Well, being kids – and the cat being away – we came up with this plan. (Actually, I think Carol came up with this plan.) As soon as Shirley left for the grocery, I was to get on my bike and ride down to the drug store, get us kids a stash of candy and get home before Shirley did. Shirley leaves and off I go. Everything was going according to plan, and I’m on the homestretch when I hear a car. I looked over and there is my Aunt Shirley driving right next to me. Needless to say, no one got candy. Lol! I’ve remembered this story all these years like it was last week – I even harass Carol about it sometimes, in fun of course. Shirley was a vibrant being, with a passion for her family, and she will be missed terribly. But it’s our memories and the stories that we share that will always keep her close to our hearts. Aunt Shirley, Godspeed til we meet again.
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Hubert & Pam Doughty
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Our condolences, thoughts and prayers.
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Carol Welsh Jenks
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We met in first grade at Holy Trinity, shared St. Mary's, CYO,Marian, and all the history and memories through the years. Her girls were my students at St. Chris ( and good kickball athletes!) We have met for a number of years at McD in Speedway. If it was Friday, we were there. Shirley, you always walked in God's shadow, now see His Face forever. Happy reunion.

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