Mary Tomey

Mary was one of my favorite residents. I watched her go home but she came back to stay multiple times. I would always say Miss Mary what is it this time? I would name off something and She would just giggle and say I missed you. She ALWAYS had her rites crackers and diet coke at bedside. She always had some crafts that she was working on to coloring to diamond jewels. I could always Count on her to talk to late at night or to have a good laugh with. Since she was a night owl.

To know Mary is to know her through her daughter Kristi. Kristi has told me so many great things about you, and especially how strong you were… such a fighter til the end. May you rest in peace and watch over your mini me Kristi.

I first met Mary Joan Tomey around 5 years ago. We met thru Ancestry DNA. We discovered we were 2nd cousins. I corresponded with her by phone, FaceTime and email. My biggest regret is that during all the years that I visited my grandparents, Clarence and Goldie Kayler in Indianapolis that I never got to meet her. Joan was only 3 years older than me and I think we would have enjoyed knowing each other. Unfortunately Covid and Joan's health kept us from meeting in person. I really enjoyed what time I had to spend with her. She seemed like such a sweet and caring person. Christine Smith

Kristi, sorry I cannot attend to give you a big hug! Moms are the best and life will be different. Surround yourself with memories and keep her in your heart!

Kristi, I’ll always remember your mom. She was so supportive of you and all of us kids in the band. I admire and respect you for how you compassionately cared for her. She was very proud of you.