
Barbara Lyles
December 06, 1945 - August 21, 2020
Obituary
Barbara Louise Bollman Lyles was born on December 6, 1945 and passed on August 20, 2020 in her home. She was preceded in death by her only son, Travis Franklin Lyles at age 35, and her parents Lawrence W. Bollman and Mary Faletic Bollman. Left to cherish her memory are her brothers, Lawrence E. Bollman (Avon, IN), Richard C. Bollman (Sun City West, AZ), and Angela Bollman Brown ( Petersburg, VA) and her beloved grandchildren Jayden, Alexis, Jack, and Alex Lyles as well as her aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews in Indiana, Illinois, Arizona, Maryland, and Virginia. Barbara grew up on three and a half acres of what was then farmland in Eastburg, Indiana and graduated from Brownsburg High School in 1964. She found her calling of giving and event planning early in life and consistently celebrated her family members with cards, letters, photos, photo albums and gifts. She married in 1975 while at Fort Campbell, Kentucky and gave birth to their son Travis. She returned to Indiana in 1979 and worked for the Veterans Administration in Indianapolis for 12 years. Her co-workers enjoyed her wit and comraderie. After recovering from her on-the-job injury, Barbara's hobbies became her full-time occupation. Through her craft and crocheting ministry, she supported her local Life Center, Noah's Animal Hospital, C.L.E.W. Seniors Ministry and Brownbag Ministry to the needy at The Blended Church pastored by Dehner Maurer and Yeshua's House of Refuge in Virginia. In the 1990's, she joyfully embraced The Blended Church, then known as Jesus the Messiah. There she found exciting teaching as well as enduring friendships and purpose. She celebrated every step of her church's phenomenal growth from storefront to megachurch and never tired of inviting people to her congregation. Barbara's passion for history and literature is evidenced by the many well-researched manuscripts she prepared for publication. In her last decades, she studied Hebrew history, language and customs to enhance her understanding of Scripture. As the family historian, Barbara recorded and transcribed her mother's memoirs resulting in Mary Tells Her Story published by Yeshua's House in 2019. As a memorial tribute, Barbara's family will be publishing her well-researched biography of the Apostle Paul. What we don't know about Paul could fill a book, and Barbara wrote that part too based on Scripture and her imagination. To contribute to the publication of Barbara's life of Paul, Rose Quartz , Tarsus Coin visit kwepub.com or mail directly to 25421 Walkers Landing Court, No. Dinwiddie, VA 23803. A copy will be sent to you upon its release.
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Ms. Kyle A. Crockett
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I met Barbara through the C. L. E. W. Seniors Ministry at The Blended Church. She was not always able to attend but she always sent the cutest, hand crafted little trinkets for us seniors. She had a genuine warmth of God's Love about her. I pray for the comfort and consolation of her loved ones hearts during this time. I did not know her very long but my life is enriched by the time we shared.
Humbly, Ms. Kyle A. Crockett
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kimmy Maurer
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Whenever I think of Barbara, I think about her love of God and her strong commitment to Jesus. She encouraged everyone to trust in the Lord with all their hearts and minds. She was very committed to The Blended Church and rarely missed a service.
She loved and cared about everyone she knew. Barbara always took the time to inquire about the things that were important and sentimental to other people. Every year on our birthdays, anniversaries, etc. she gave us something she knew we loved and treasured. Her love, prayers and her genuine concern for family and friends will be missed.
Angela Brown and family, our hearts go out to you at this time of grief. We will continue to pray for comfort and peace to surround your entire family.
Love,
Dehner and Kimmy Maurer
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Psalms 34:18.
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Kamala
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While I only knew Ms Barbara thru her sister, my sistah-friend Angela; I discovered a person who shared my love of reading and discovering new ways to interact with the world around us. I pray for the comfort of your family and that your sorrow will pass quickly and lead to the happy memories of the wonderful gift of Ms. Barbara's life.
Love and Peace Forever
Kamala & Wilfred Wilson
Petersburg, Va.
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Christina McGairk
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Miss Barbara was the first person who welcomed me to Jesus The Messiah, now known as The Blended Church. She was also the first person I was looking for and so excited to see when I moved back to Indiana. She was such a loving and caring person. You could feel her love for God through her presence and hugs. You could see her love for people through her doeful eyes that radiated God's love. I'm going to miss her beautiful and thoughtful crafts that she made for me through the years and that I still have today. But most importantly, I will miss her and her Christ-like loving spirit. Rest in Heaven Miss Barbara Love you.
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Melissa Greene
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I just found out! I'm heartbroken! But I know she is with her beloved Lord! And not in pain which gives me comfort. She was such a sweet, sweet woman of God who alwAys remembered you on special occasions with a gift from her heart, sometimes giving gifts just because. Her heart was so giving and loving. I will miss her so much, and have missed her for months till now!