Eulogies and obituaries
Finding the right words during a difficult time can feel overwhelming.
Whether you’re writing a eulogy or preparing an obituary, these guidelines are here to help you gather your thoughts and create something meaningful that honors your loved one’s life and story.
Writing a eulogy
Writing a eulogy can feel overwhelming, but it’s also a meaningful way to honor your loved one and share their story. It doesn’t need to be perfect—what matters most is that it comes from the heart.
A few simple tips:
Gather memories from family and friends
Focus on a few meaningful stories or qualities
Keep it personal, sincere, and respectful
Write it down and keep it relatively brief
Practice ahead of time so you feel more comfortable
It’s okay to show emotion, and it’s okay to pause. Your presence and your words will mean more than anything else.
Writing an obituary
Writing an obituary can be difficult, especially during an emotional time. Having a simple structure can help make the process a little easier.
Most obituaries include:
Full name, age, and place of residence
Date and place of passing
Key life details such as family, career, and interests
Service information (date, time, and location)
Surviving and predeceased family members
Memorial contributions or acknowledgements
Below is a basic template you can use as a starting point:
We’re here to help
If you would like assistance writing a eulogy or obituary, our team is here to support you. We’re honored to help you create something meaningful that reflects your loved one’s life.